How to Become an Achiever in Life?

I received this forwarded email from my elder brother and I think it is a very good reminder as we always forget things very easily. Maybe some of the information is already known to us, however we might not remember them when our life passby day by day, and follow the flow common life. I remember one saying, it's something like this, some incident might be common, but it might not be normal... so the next thing is awareness. We have to aware of what's abnormal around us, even though they are everywhere. Hope the following article helps us to step one more foot forward.

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No matter from what background, circumstances, or environment you may have come, it's always essential to strive to better yourself. I have great respect for those who are born into horrible and demeaning situations in life.

And yet, in spite of their situations, they got up, got out, and became successes. Some of these individuals were born on dirt floors, having to wallow in poverty, surrounded by crime, gangs, drugs, and worse.

I honor those who achieved success in spite of such challenges; especially, those who were abused by parents, guardians, caregivers, or people who are supposed to be trustworthy.

What enables people to transcend dismal situations? I believe it's because they have come to know and recognize the enemies of achievement.

First, they know that physical poverty hurts, but they also realize that poverty of the spirit is a greater problem than just being poor in money and in resources.

A spirit of cynicism and a sense of boredom are the greatest enemies of progress. They produce inaction, reluctance, and cause one to retreat.

To advance and develop, you must know you can; and then, you must take action. Self-awareness, personal growth, education, and entrepreneurial "spunk" lead to success.

The person who transcends even the most bleak of circumstances is the one who believes that in a universe of unlimited possibilities, there's always another opportunity to make things just a little better.

Second, achievers believe in themselves. Why should you believe in yourself? The achievement of anything begins with the idea that it is possible to do and that you can do it. Belief is a powerful motivator.

Every year thousands of people go forth seeking to live their dreams. Many struggle but through persistent effort and belief in themselves, they become successful in creating a stable and secure life for themselves.

Third, achievers have figured out that problems and challenges come with the territory, and they are undaunted by them. Those who rise up and become successes in life view challenges merely as inconveniences and not as problems.

From their perspective, no challenge is permanent, and they act as if obstacles don't even exist. They set goals and forge ahead. They go under, over, around, and through. They focus on solutions.

They've also learned that it does no good to complain to people who don't care and can't help you. So if you're going to complain, find people who care. If you can't, be quiet and move on!

Fourth, achievers never use lack of talent as an excuse for not making an effort. At some point, many of us learn to be afraid and skeptical of our chances to accomplish what we want. But at what point do we choose to quit or give up? You must be determined to persevere, endure, and overcome.

Fifth, achievers find joy. There is joy in living meaningfully, with a clear purpose and using creative intelligence. That choice is up to each of us. Joy is happiness that does not depend on circumstance. Find your wellspring of joy and go to it every day.

Growth is what life is about. On the one hand it comes naturally, on the other hand it comes by exerting some effort. Achievers realize that all of the elements and tools necessary to grow and develop are available. Developing your mind and body comes as the result of being curious, wanting to learn, and directing your energy.

Getting with others to set goals and work, makes it easier to encourage yourself, improve your condition, and stretch. Eventually, you will encounter people who often believe in you more than you believe in yourself. It's by meeting life's challenges together that we are strengthened, grow, and achieve our dreams.